Books allow us to learn and grow. It's critical to continue to stay positive and relevant. These books can help.
Some of these books, and others that aren't listed here are part of the do-over.me library and can be lent to members. Ask us how to do that.
Please note that we own the books that have a * before the title. We'd love to own them all and are always appreciative of any gifts.
Join us in September for a discussion of Option B: Facing Adversity, Building Resilience, and Finding Joy by Sheryl Sandberg and Adam Grant
Our October book is How to be Everything: A Guide for Those Who Still Don't Know What They Want to Do When They Grow Up by Emilie Wapnick
During November will will be reading Ben Sasse's, The Vanishing American Adult: Our Coming of Age Crisis and How to Rebuild a Culture of Self-Reliance.
There will be no book in December.
We'll be back in January 2018 with Brene Brown's newest book, Braving the Wilderness: The Quest for True Belonging and the Courage to Stand Alone
MUST HAVES -
Life Reimagined: The Science, Art and Opportunity of Midlife by Barbara Bradley Hagerty
Flourish: A Visionary New Understanding of Happiness and Well-Being by Martin E.P. Seligman
Encore Careers by Marcie Alboher
For Job Seekers
Type Talk at Work: How the 16 Personality Types Determine Your Success on the Job by Otto Kroeger with Janet M. Thuesen and Hile Rutlege
Knock 'em Dead: Social Networking for Job Search and Professional Services by Martin Yate
*What Color is Your Parachute by Richard Nelson Bolles
How to Prepare for a Job Interview: The 25-Minute Routine That Can Make a Big Difference [Infographic] by Kayla Kozan
Three New Job Interview Techniques, Trends, and Twists – Good, Bad, and Indifferent
Inspirational do-over stories
Hillbilly Elegy by J.D. Vance
The Opposite of Loneliness: Essays and Stories Hardcover by Marina Keegan (Author), Anne Fadiman (Introduction)
Chickens in the Road by Suzanne McMinn
Woodswoman Living Alone in Adirondack Wilderness by Anne LeBastille
What Comes Next and How to Like It by Abigail Thomas
Peace from Broken Pieces: How to get through what you're going through by Iyanla Vanzant
Specifically for those considering a do-over
Make Change Work for You by Scott Steinberg
Zero to One: Notes on Start-Ups or How to Build the Future by Peter Thiel with Blake Masters - Some quotes from the book: "The act of creation is singular, as is the moment of creation and the result is something fresh and strange." "Today's best practices lead to dead ends and best paths are new and untried." "Successful people find value in unexpected places." "Brilliant thinking is rare, but courage is in even greater supply."
Quitter: Closing the Gap between Your Day Job and Your Dream Job and Start: Punch Fear in the Face. Escape Average. Do Work that Matters - both by Jon Acuff
The Career Guide for Creative and Unconventional People by Carol Eikleberry, Ph.D.
*Do Over: Rescue Monday, Reinvent Your Work and Never Get Stuck by Jon Acuff
*The Encore Career Handbook: How to Make a Living and a Difference in the Second Half of Life by Marci Alboher
Unretirement: How Baby Boomers are Changing the Way We Think about Work, Community and the Good Life by Chris Farrell
Works Well with Others: An Outsiders Guide to Shaking Hands, Shutting Up, Handling Jerks, and Other Crucial Skills in Business that No One Ever Teaches You by Ross McCammon
Listful Thinking: Using lists to be more productive, highly successful and less stressed by Paula Rizzo
The Go-Giver: A Little Story about a Powerful Business Idea by Bob BUrg and John David Mann
Better by Mistake: The Unexpected Benefits of Being Wrong by Alina Tuge
Mindset: The New Psychology of Success, How We Can Learn to Fulfill our Potential by Carol Dweck
The Rebel Rules by Chip Conley
Marketing that Matters by Chip Conley
Small Giants: Companies that Chose to be Great instead of Big by Bo Burlingham
Zen and the Art of Management by Richard Tanner Pascal
Failure to Hire by Liz Ryan
Managing Yourself for the Career You Want by Herminia Ibarra
The Right Brain Business Plan by Jennifer Lee
Manage Your Work. Manage Your Life by Boris Groysberg and Robin Abrahams
How Successful People Grow, How Successful People Think and How Successful People Lead by John C. Marshall
Seven Choices for Success and Significance by Dr. Nido Qubein
The Power of Broke by Daymon Johns
Your Dream Map by John Maxwell
The Art of the Start: The Time Tested, Battle-Hardened Guide for Anyone Starting Anything by Guy Kawaski
The $100 StartUp: Reinvent the Way You Make a Living, Do What You Love and Create a New Future by Chris Guillebeau
The Pumpkin Plan: A Simple Strategy to Grow a Remarkable Business in Any Field by Mike Michalowicz
Living an Inspired Life by Dr. Wayne W. Dyer
GRIT: The Power of Passion and Perseverance by Angela Duckworth
The Happiness Track by Emma Seppala, Ph.D.
Smarter, Faster, Better by Charles Duhigg
Year of Yes: How to Dance it Out, Stand in the Sun and be Your Own Person by Sonda Rhimes
The Road to Courage by David Brooks - A highlight - "Brooks says there are two sides of our nature, Adam 1 and Adam 2. Adam 1 is stuffed with “resumé virtues” (as in curriculum vitae). Adam 1 wants to build, create, produce, win and appear high status. Adam 2 has the “eulogy virtues” – the warm remarks said over our coffin that enable a person to “do good and be good”. Adam 2 knows that “in order to fulfil yourself, you have to forget yourself. In order to find yourself, you have to lose yourself. The two Adams are always in conflict."
Beyond Willpower: From Stress to Success in 40 days. The Secret Principle to Achieving Success in Life, Love and Happiness by Alexander Loyd, PhD., N.D.
Be Quiet, Be Heard: The Paradox of Persuasion by Susan R Glaser, Ph.D. and Peter A. Glaser, Ph.D.
DO the KIND Thing: Think Boundlessly, Work Purposefully, Live Passionately by Daniel Lubetzky
*Ditch the Pitch: The Art of Improvised Persuasion by Steve Yastrow
Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less by Greg McKeown
Fully Alive by Timothy Shriver
Shyness and Society: The Illusions of Competence by Susie Scott
Connected: The Surprising Power of Our Social Networks and How They Shape Our Lives by Nicholas A. Christakis, MD, PhD and James Fowler, PhD
What if…A Lifetime of Questions, Speculations, Reasonable Guesses, and a Few Things I Know for Sure by Shirley McLaine
Your Life Calling: Reimaging the Rest of Your Life by Jane Pauley
Focus: The Hidden Driver of Excellence by Daniel Goldman
Love, Skip, Jump: Start Living the Adventure of Your Life by Shelene Bryant
In this whimsical yet inspiring book, Shelene tells the stories of real-life paths she took to learn some simple truths that changed everything in her life—everything for the better.
By loving how we we're made to love; skipping comfort and safety to help those who can never repay us; and taking a risk to jump into the epic journey of our lives, the reality is we are all just one yes away from changing everything.
It Ain’t Over . . . Till It’s Over by Margo Thomas introduces us to sixty amazing women who are proving that it’s never too late to live out a dream—to launch a business, travel the world, get a PhD, indulge a creative impulse, make a family recipe famous, escape danger, find love, or fill a void in life with a challenging new experience. Meet a graphic artist who fulfilled a childhood ambition by going to med school at age forty-two; a suburban mom whose innovative snack recipe for her daughter’s lunchbox turned into a multi-million-dollar business; a private-practice psychiatrist who convinced her husband that they should quit their jobs and take off on an exciting, open-ended, cross-country adventure—in a giant bus, no less!; and a middle-aged English teacher who, devastated to discover that her husband was cheating on her, refused to be a victim, filed for divorce, and began the challenging journey of rebuilding her life.
Brimming with anecdotes that will inspire smiles, tears, and—most of all—hope, It Ain’t Over speaks to women of all ages with an empowering message: The best is yet to come!
SNAP: Making the most out of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma by Paul Wood
Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World that Can't Stop Talking by Susan Cain
*fail fail again fail better: wise advice for leaning into the unknown by Pema Chodron
*Very Good Lives: The fringe benefits of failure and the importance of imagination by J.K. Rowling
The Power of Failure: Succeeding in the Age of Innovation by Fran Tarkenton
*Daring Greatly and *Rising Strong, both by Brene Brown
FLAWd: How to Stop Hating on Yourself, Others and the Things that Make you Who You Are by Emily Anne Rigal
The power of kindness: The unexpected benefits of leading a compassionate life by Piero Ferrucci
The Zimzum of Love: A New Way of Understanding Marriage by Rob and Kristen Bell
Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage by Elizabeth Gilbert
*Gratitude by Oliver Sacks
*A Short Guide to a Happy Life by Anna Quindlen
For the Clearly Creative
Take a Big Leap: Conquer your Hidden Fear and Take Life to the Next Level by Gay Hendricks (2010) As improvisers, we get failure. It's part of our job description. What we actually have a harder time with is success. What happens when we start getting good and we start getting more recognition and more opportunities? Some of us self-destruct, and the worst part is we don't even know why. How you could not love a book about how we sabotage our own success and the sneaky ways we do it? In The Big Leap, Hendricks not only helps identify the things that we do that get in our own way to becoming even more successful, but also he gives us practical ways to overcome them. If you are frustrated that your career is not where its supposed to be, this book is a must-have on your holiday wish list. Be aware this book is filled with tough love.
Steal Like An Artist: 10 Things Nobody Told You About Being Creative
by Austin Kleon (2012) Boy, do I see this in my Improv classes all the time: Students who are blocking their creativity because they want to come up with an original idea. The premise of this book is that everything has been done before, and that all sorts of artists from Pablo Picasso to David Bowie have stolen from other artists. How great is that? For me, learning that, and the nine practical things that follow, was inspiring. The real power of this book is in its simplicity. It takes the shame out of the notion that is wrong to steal from other artists and gives you permission to do so.
The Doodle Revolution by Sunni Brown - Unlock the Power to Think Differently
The Doodle Revolution is a prequel to Gamestorming and also a global movement unto itself. It’s an entertaining and informative romp through applied visual language for non-artists, but it also aims to radically overturn our social (mis)perceptions about doodling. To doodle is not to waste time or to be distracted. Instead, doodling is a powerful technique people use around the world to help themselves THINK. As scientists, innovators and even presidents know, doodling is a precursor to and a catalyst for deep intellectual and creative breakthroughs. This kick-starter guide for igniting and applying simple visual language to any challenge shows that our nascent capacity for visual literacy need only be unleashed in order to elevate cognitive performance instantly, at school and at work. Together, we’ll put the DO in Doodle and liberate Doodlers everywhere. Sign the Doodle Revolutionary’s Manifesto and Viva la Revolución!
Unfolding Your Life Vision – Portable Vision Boards by Jennifer Lee
The Art of Non-Conformity: Set Your Own Rules, Live the Life You Want and Change the World by Chris Guillebeau
Funny Business by Bill Connolly
*Ditch the Pitch by Steve Yastrow
*Yes, And: How Improvisation Reverses "No, But" Thinking and Improves Creativity and Collaboration--Lessons from The Second City by Kelly Leonard and Tom Yorton
Dying and Death
The Worm at the Core: On the Role of Death in Life by Sheldon Solomon, Jeff Greenberg and Tom Pyszcznski
The Journey of Desire: Searching for the Life We've Only Dreamed Of by John Eldredge
30 Lessons for Living: Tried and True Advice from the Wisest Americans by Karl Pillemer, Ph. D.
Small Victories by Annie LaMott
*The Alchemist by Paula Coehlo
Still Life with Breadcrumbs by Anna Quindlen
Just for Child in us all
Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day by Judith Viorst
Mrs. Katz and Tush by Patricia Polacco
More by I.C. Springman
Bear has a Story to Tell by Philip Stead
The Houey's in the New Sweater by Olivia Jeffers
Hello! Hello! Disconnect to Re-connect by Matthew Cordell
Stone Soup by Ann McGovern
On the Night You Were Born by Nancy Tillman
The Dot by Peter H. Reynolds
Snowflake Bentley by Jacqueline Briggs
Love You Forever by Robert Munsch
I'll Always Love You by Hans Wilhelm
The Secret of Saying Thanks by Douglas Wood
Gifts of the Heart by Patricia Polacco
Christmas Day in the Morning by Pearl S. Buck
The Message of the Birds by Kate Westerland
The Blessing Cup by Patricia Polacco
Beautiful Oops! by Barney Saltzberg
Where the Sunrise Begins by Douglas Wood
The Keeping Quilt by Patricia Polacco
The Carpenter's Gift: A Christmas Tale about the Rockefeller Center Tree by David Rubel
The Rainbow Fish by Marcus Psfister
The Little Engine that Could by Watty Piper
Oh the Places You'll Go by Dr. Seuss
Something from Nothing by Phoebe Gilman
Once Upon a Company by Wendy Anderson Halperin
Featured in 2016
January - *Do Over by Jon Acuff
February – *A Curious Mind by Brian Glazer
March - Nice Girls Don't Get the Corner Office by Lois P Frankel, Ph.D.
April – The Future of Work: Attracte New Talent, Build Beter Leaders and Create a Competitive Organization by Jacob Morgan
May - Never Eat Alone by Keith Ferrazi
June - Surprise: Embrace the Unpredictable and Engineer the Unexpected by Tania Luna and LeeAnn Renninger PhD
July - Fail Better: Design Smart Mistakes and Succeed Sooner by Anjali Sastry and Kara Penn
August - Rising Strong: The Reckoning, The Rumble. The Revolution. by Brene Brown
September - Love, Skip, Jump: Start Living the Adventure of Your Life by Shelene Bryant
October - Presence: Bringing Your Boldest Self to Your Biggest Challenges by Amy Cuddy
November - The Desire Map: Creating Goals with Soul by Danielle LaPorte
There was NO BOOK in December.
Featured in 2015
December - *Desire Map: Creating Goals with Soul by Danielle LaPorte
November - *Effective Apology: Mending Fences, Building Bridges and Restoring Trust by John Kador
October - *Overwhelmed: How to Work, Love and Play When No One has the Time by Brigid Schulte
September - *Crazy is a Compliment: The Power of Zigging When Everyone Else Zags by Linda Rottenberg -
Rottenberg has spent her career helping innovators think big. “If people aren’t calling you crazy, you aren’t thinking big enough,” she says. These days taking chances isn’t just for college dropouts in hoodies. Whether you work at a Fortune 500 company, a nonprofit, or a mom-and-pop, you need to think and act like a change-maker to claim your path to success.
How to do that is Rottenberg’s expertise. As the cofounder and CEO of Endeavor, the world’s leading organization devoted to identifying, mentoring, and investing in fast-growing businesses, she’s helped thousands of entrepreneurs take the risk out of risk-taking. Now Rottenberg draws on her unique experience to show how we can all take manageable steps to achieve our dreams. Crazy is a Compliment offers a blend of inspiring stories and practical tools for getting started, going big, and integrating work and family.
Written with wisdom, humor and passion, Crazy is a Compliment is a rallying cry for a new approach to business and a blueprint for personal change.
August - *Dream Year: How to Make the Leap from a Job You Hate to a Life You Love by Ben Arment - In this book, the author argues that we're all motivated by two fears: the fear of failure and the fear of insignificance. He believes we must consciously choose to fear insignificance more. Because only when we become terrified of wasting our potential and squandering our dreams - more terrified that we are of depleting our savings, say, or having to go without premium cable - will we dare to leave fulfilling jobs and live boldly. Says Argent, "You were born to live a significant life."
July - *The Little Gold Book of YES! Attitude by Jeffrey Gittomer
June - *BRAND YOU 50 by Tom Peters
May - *Do What You Are: Discover the Perfect Career for you Through the Secrets of Personality Type by Paul Tieger and Barbara Barron-Tieger, *Strengths Finder 2.0 by Tom Rath and *How the World Sees You by Sally Hogshead.
April – *Quiet: The Power of an Introvert in a World that Won't Stop Talking by Susan Cain. With guest facilitator, Jerre Henriksen, Instructor/Faciitator, Lifelong Learning Institute, Waubonsee Community College
March - *The Confidence Code: The Science and Art of Self-Assurance – What Women Should Know by Katty Kay and Claire Shipman
February - *Thrive: The Third Metric for for Redefining Success and Creating a Life of Well-being, Wisdom and Wonder, by Arianna Huffington -
In *Thrive, Arianna Huffington, the co-founder and editor-in-chief of the Huffington Post and one of the most influential women in the world, has written a passionate call to arms, looking to redefine what it means to be successful in today’s world.
She likens our drive for money and power to two legs of a three-legged stool. It may hold us up temporarily, but sooner or later we’re going to topple over. We need a third leg – a Third Metric for defining success – in order to live a healthy, productive, and meaningful life.
In this deeply personal book, Arianna talks candidly about her own challenges with managing time and prioritising the demands of a career and two daughters. Drawing on the latest groundbreaking research and scientific findings in the fields of psychology, sports, sleep and physiology that show the profound and transformative effects of meditation, mindfulness, unplugging and giving, Arianna shows us the way to a revolution in our culture, our thinking, our workplaces, and our lives
January - *Callings: Finding and Following an Authentic Life by Gregg Levoy. With guest facilitator, Vickie Austin, Founder of Choices Worldwide
Featured in 2014
December - Living a Life that Matters: Resolving the Conflict Between Conscious and Success by Harold S. Kushner
November - Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way we Live, Love and Parent by Bree Brown Ph.D., LMSW
October - *Outliers: The Story of Success by Malcolm Gladwell
September - *The Desire Map: Creating Goals with Soul by Danielle LaPorte
August - *Give and Take: A Revolutionary Guide to Success by Adam Grant
July - *HA! The Science of When We Laugh and Why by Scott Weems
June - *The 4-Hour Work Week: Escape 9-5, Live Anywhere and Join the New Rich by Timothy Ferriss
May - *Play: How it shapes the brain, opens the imagination and Invigorates the soul by Stuart Brown, M.D.
April - *Remote: Office Not Required by David Heinemeier Hansson and Jason Fried
March - *Top Brain, Bottom Brain: Surprising insights into how you think by Stephen M. Kosslyn
February - *David and Goliath: Underdogs, Misfits and the Art of Battling Giants by Malcolm Gladwell
January - *To Sell is Human by Dan Pink
December 2013 - *The Gifts of Imperfection: Let go of who you think you're suppose to me and embrace who you are by Brene Brown