I found a poem by Edgar Albert Guest that exemplifies the attitude of do-over.me, its staff and its clients. Mary Lee Johanson, Office Manager

It Couldn't Be Done

Somebody said that it couldn’t be done
      But he with a chuckle replied
That “maybe it couldn’t,” but he would be one
      Who wouldn’t say so till he’d tried. 
So he buckled right in with the trace of a grin
      On his face. If he worried he hid it. 
He started to sing as he tackled the thing
      That couldn’t be done, and he did it! 

Somebody scoffed: “Oh, you’ll never do that; 
      At least no one ever has done it;” 
But he took off his coat and he took off his hat
      And the first thing we knew he’d begun it. 
With a lift of his chin and a bit of a grin, 
      Without any doubting or quiddit, 
He started to sing as he tackled the thing
      That couldn’t be done, and he did it. 

There are thousands to tell you it cannot be done, 
      There are thousands to prophesy failure, 
There are thousands to point out to you one by one, 
      The dangers that wait to assail you. 
But just buckle in with a bit of a grin, 
      Just take off your coat and go to it; 
Just start in to sing as you tackle the thing
      That “cannot be done,” and you’ll do it.


A Blessing For One Who Is Exhausted
--by John O'Donohue, syndicated from awakin.org, Jun 02, 2014 


When the rhythm of the heart becomes hectic,
 Time takes on the strain until it breaks;
 Then all the unattended stress falls in
 On the mind like an endless, increasing weight,

 The light in the mind becomes dim.
 Things you could take in your stride before
 Now become laborsome events of will.

 Weariness invades your spirit.
 Gravity begins falling inside you,
 Dragging down every bone.

 The tide you never valued has gone out.
 And you are marooned on unsure ground.
 Something within you has closed down;
 And you cannot push yourself back to life.

 You have been forced to enter empty time.
 The desire that drove you has relinquished.
 There is nothing else to do now but rest
 And patiently learn to receive the self
 You have forsaken for the race of days.

 At first your thinking will darken
 And sadness take over like listless weather.
 The flow of unwept tears will frighten you.

 You have traveled too fast over false ground;
 Now your soul has come to take you back.

 Take refuge in your senses, open up
 To all the small miracles you rushed through.

 Become inclined to watch the way of rain
 When it falls slow and free.

 Imitate the habit of twilight,
 Taking time to open the well of color
 That fostered the brightness of day.

 Draw alongside the silence of stone
 Until its calmness can claim you.
 Be excessively gentle with yourself.

 Stay clear of those vexed in spirit.
 Learn to linger around someone of ease
 Who feels they have all the time in the world.

 Gradually, you will return to yourself,
 Having learned a new respect for your heart
 And the joy that dwells far within slow time.

--John O'Donohue, from "Blessings"


How to Reinvent Yourself After 50 by Dorie Clark


"Our Greatest Fear" by Marianne Williamson

Our greatest fear is not that we are inadequate,
but that we are powerful beyond measure.

It is our light, not our darkness, that frightens us.
We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant,
gorgeous, handsome, talented and fabulous?

Actually, who are you not to be?
You are a child of God.

Your playing small does not serve the world.
There is nothing enlightened about shrinking
so that other people won't feel insecure around you.

We were born to make manifest the glory of God within us.
It is not just in some; it is in everyone.

And, as we let our own light shine, we consciously give
other people permission to do the same.
As we are liberated from our fear,
our presence automatically liberates others.


Attitude by Charles Swindoll

"The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life.  Attitude, to me, is more important than facts.  It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think or say or do.  It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skills.  It will make or break a company...a church...a home. 

The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we embrace for that day.  We cannot change our past...we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way.  We cannot change the inevitable.  The only thing we can do is lay on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am 100% convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it.  And so it is with you.  We are in charge of our attitudes."